Your Relationship with Time

Take a moment, drop in with me, and ask yourself:

What is it that you say or complain about when it comes to TIME?

Ex: "There's not enough time. I don’t have time. There's only so much time. Time goes by so fast."

How does your relationship with TIME affect you? How are you reacting to TIME as a result of the things you say about it? How does it leave you feeling?

Goddess, TIME can’t show up any other way for you than how you describe it. In other words, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. The words you use to describe time will attract that relationship with time. If you always say there’s not enough time, you’re always going to experience not enough time.

Time is relative. We experience it differently depending on context — but when you keep showing up with a limiting story about time, it can’t show up any other way for you. So consider this: why would we choose a disempowering relationship with time that stresses and overwhelms us?

Usually, it’s because there’s something in it for you. You get to benefit from it in some way. But how?

Think back to what you first thought of when I asked what you say about time. When you describe time that way, what does it get you off the hook for? What do you get to avoid? Where are you avoiding responsibility in your life?

When we complain about not having enough time, we’re often avoiding responsibility. Because you now know — you are the cause of your life, and you can also be the cause of time. Maybe you don’t have all the time in the world to do everything, but you do get to choose where you put your time, energy, and focus in any given moment.

Yes, there’s a short-term benefit in blaming time — but it’s also hurting you. It leaves you stressed, overwhelmed, and stuck. Chances are, you’d like to feel differently in your relationship with time, right?

So how do we do that? It comes down to creating a new story, a new relationship with time. And that begins by getting present to time right now.

Time is elusive, illusionary. You can feel that it passes, but you can’t actually taste it, touch it, or measure it yourself without a clock. And if you think about it, time is an illusion anyway — because you can’t experience the past, and the future never actually arrives. All you ever truly have is this moment. This one. And this one.

When we get present, we can start to tell a new story about time. Stories like:

“I have all the time I need.”
“There’s always enough time.”
“I have the right amount of time to get the job done.”

This is the shift. Start noticing when you fall back into disempowering stories about time, and choose differently. Because all Goddesses master their relationship with time — and now it’s your turn.